Dating Women Seeking - How to Handle Your Man's Wandering Eyes

Published: 08th June 2009
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Ladies, admit it. You've seen your man looking at another woman and you've had a twinge of jealousy rise up inside you. So, how do you handle your man's wandering eye? Do you nag him and make a big fuss over it? Do you let it slide and never bring it up? To all the dating women seeking, this article is for you.

First of all, we need to get down to the basis. Men love sex. It's one of their top priorities; right up there with respect and encouragement. Men think about sex and lust after sexual acts far more than women think about it. So, if men need sex and they don't get their needs fulfilled, isn't it highly likely to see that they may seek elsewhere to get their needs fulfilled?

So, dating women seeking, if your man stares at a scantily clad woman walking down the street, what is your first reaction? Do you nudge or hit him and complain and tell him not to look? Do you give him the look? Do you remain quiet and ignore it? All of these reactions are very possible and depend on each individual person and how we deal with this issue.

My husband and I have a very open relationship when it comes to this issue. I've done a lot of reading and studying on the opposite sex and realize what is important to my husband, as a man. My husband respects me and tries not to look or gawk at other women, but every now and then I catch him looking at one and our way of dealing with it is to laugh it off, no harm, no foul. He's never acted on his wandering eye and I realize that he has needs that need to be fulfilled and we try to work together, especially with him trying to keep his eyes off the ladies.

Every couple is different, but one of the most important things to do when dealing with the wandering eye is to keep the lines of communication open. You both need to discuss your feelings on this issue. For the ladies, you need to express that you don't really like him looking at the ladies, but you understand why he does it. That admission will take a load off your partner's shoulders and he will be more apt to honor you and not gawk at the ladies. Ladies, listen when your man explains or tries his best to express why he acts the way he does and why he is so sexually minded.

Ladies, do you realize that when a man wants to have sex (and this is especially true for the men in committed, rather than casual relationships), he is expressing his love for you? It's true. Now, you ladies, your expression of love comes in wanting to cuddle and share romance and emotional intimacy with your men. Do you see where problems can arise because we both are on opposite sides of the issue? So, we need to work together to meet in the middle and find a balance between our two worlds. So women dating seeking keep your hearts open.

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